For Families: Finding Support While Supporting Your Loved One
When Someone You Love Is Struggling with Addiction
Watching someone you love battle addiction can be one of life’s most painful experiences. The mixture of emotions—worry, frustration, hope, disappointment, love, and sometimes anger—can be overwhelming. At California Detox & Recovery Center, we understand that addiction affects the entire family, not just the individual.
You are not alone in this journey. Many families face similar challenges, and we’re here to support you as you support your loved one.
The Emotional Toll on Families
Families of those struggling with addiction often experience:
- Anxiety about their loved one’s health and safety
- Confusion about how to best help
- Grief for the relationship as it once was
- Exhaustion from constant worry and vigilance
- Guilt about whether you could have done more
- Frustration when previous attempts at help haven’t succeeded
- Financial strain from trying to provide support
- Strained relationships with other family members
These responses are natural and valid. Recovery is a journey for your loved one and your entire family system.
We recognize that families need support just as much as their loved ones in treatment.
Our approach includes:
Open Communication
We maintain appropriate communication with families throughout the treatment process, respecting both your need to know and your loved one's privacy.
Support Resources
We connect family members with support groups and resources specifically designed for those who love someone struggling with addiction.
Guidance for the Future
We help you prepare for your loved one's return home, including setting healthy boundaries and creating a supportive environment.
Family Education
We provide resources to help you understand addiction, treatment approaches, and how to support recovery without enabling.
FAQS
Here are answers to some common questions.
What types of addiction does your facility treat?
We specialize in treating substance use disorders and mental health disorders. Additionally, we address behavioral addictions, including gambling disorder, sex and love addiction, work addiction, internet/gaming addiction, and shopping addiction (available through private pay).
How long are your typical treatment programs?
Expect 5-10 days for detox portion of our treatment and 30-45 days for the residential portion of our treatment.
Do you accept insurance, and if so, which providers?
We accept all major insurance carriers, Anthem, Aetna, Cigna, United Healthcare, etc. We do not accept MediCal.
Do you accept patients from out of state?
Yes.
What is the admissions process like?
The initial step in our admissions process involves a phone call with our Admissions Coordinator. This conversation aims to establish a rapport, provide insight into our program, and gather essential information regarding the motivation for seeking treatment at this time. Following this, a thorough pre-screening assessment will be conducted, during which the Coordinator will seek info about history of substance use, any mental health concerns, potential risk factors, current medications, health issues, and social support and living situation.
Can family members visit during treatment?
Yes, family members are encouraged to participate in treatment. CDRC offers comprehensive family services, including therapy sessions, resources, and referral management to support family involvement.
What amenities and accommodations do you offer?
Private or semi-private rooms with cozy bedding. On-site laundry (full service). Housekeeping services. Warm, homey decor (vs. hospital-style settings). Chef-prepared meals. Special dietary accommodations (vegan, gluten-free, diabetic, etc.). Coffee/tea stations, snacks available throughout the day. Nutritionist consultations available upon request. IV Nutrition (NAD Therapy, Vitamin Supplementation, etc). Yoga, meditation, or mindfulness sessions. Gym access. Massage therapy or acupuncture available upon request. Wellness coaching. Art therapy, music therapy, or expressive journaling. Gardening or horticulture therapy. Equine-assisted therapy. Cold plunges. Drama or movement-based therapy. Scheduled or supervised cell phone/computer access. Access to Zoom for legal or family meetings. TVs in rooms or community spaces (full access to streaming services). Nature walks, hiking trails, beach outings. Sports courts (basketball, pickleball, etc.). 24/7 nursing and support staff. On-site psychiatry and medication management. Case management for housing, legal, or employment support. Family therapy or weekend family workshops. Aftercare and discharge planning assistance. Welcome baskets with journals, water bottles, or recovery tools. Community outings (museum visits, movies, recovery meetings). Spa-like bathrooms with aromatherapy. Celebration of milestones
Do you provide medication-assisted treatment (MAT)?
Yes.
What types of therapy do you offer (individual, group, family)?
Individualized therapy, group therapy, family therapy, cognitive behavioral therapy, Psychodynamic Therapy, Dialectical Behavior Therapy, EMDR Somatic Experience Therapy
Do you offer dual diagnosis treatment for co-occurring mental health conditions?
Yes.
What happens after the program ends? Do you offer aftercare support?
Upon completion of the program, our clinicians will collaborate with your loved one to develop a personalized aftercare plan tailored to their strengths and needs. We provide aftercare coordination, private therapy appointments, and sober living accommodations, with options that can be customized for each individual.
Is your facility licensed and accredited?
Our facility is licensed by the Department of Health Care Services. (Soon to be accredited with Joint Commission).
What is the staff-to-client ratio?
Our staff to client ratio is 2-3 staff members per client.
Are there private rooms available or is all accommodation shared?
We have private rooms and shared rooms available.
How do you handle withdrawal symptoms during detox?
During detox, residents receive individualized treatment plans developed by our Medical and Psychiatric teams. Nursing staff regularly monitor vital signs and assess for potential complications, including seizures and hallucinations. Withdrawal protocols are adaptively managed based on the individual’s response.
What makes your center different from other rehabilitation facilities?
Our center stands out through its commitment to whole-person healing and client-centered care across all programs. Each department is managed by qualified Physicians, Psychologists, and licensed professionals, ensuring that our integrated programs address clients’ comprehensive needs. We provide customized experiences tailored to each individual, and our aftercare programming is designed to be as effective and essential as our Detox and Residential services.
Do you offer specialized programs for specific demographics (veterans, executives, etc.)?
We currently offer specialized tracks that are population-specific our clinicians are experienced in treating a wide variety of cultures, occupations, and demographics.
What should my loved one bring for the stay?
For the stay, please bring a suitcase with 7-10 days of comfortable, weather-appropriate clothing, toiletries (preferably unopened), and several pairs of shoes. Essential items include your wallet, photo ID, insurance card, and current medications. Additional helpful items may include a journal, photos of loved ones, books, and stamps/envelopes. We advise leaving valuables at home.
What is your success rate, and how do you measure outcomes?
We measure outcomes through Client Satisfaction Surveys, alumni interviews, and internal studies.
When Your Loved One Isn't Ready
One of the most painful situations families face is when their loved one isn’t ready to seek help.
If you’re in this position:
- Remember that you cannot force recovery—it must be their decision.
- Focus on setting healthy boundaries to protect your own well-being.
- Seek support for yourself, regardless of your loved one’s choices.
- Learn about addiction to better understand their behavior.
- Consult with us about intervention options, if appropriate.
- Take care of your own physical and emotional health.
- Be ready with resources when they are ready to seek help.
When you reach out to California Detox & Recovery Center, you’re not just finding help for your loved one—you’re finding support for your entire family. We’re here to answer your questions, address your concerns, and walk alongside you through this challenging time.
Recovery is possible. Healing is possible for your loved one and your family.
Contact us today to learn how we can support your family’s journey toward healing. You don’t have to walk this path alone.